Friday Photos And This Week's Meal

Hello! And welcome to Friday! Mocha and I hope you all have a cozy and lovely weekend. I hope those of you who need rain get it soon. I also join those of you who are praying for the heartwrenching situation in Afghanistan. Thank you for your suggestions on my dinner the other evening when Steve had a business dinner! Would you believe I did order takeout indeed? My favorite pizza. Pizza Hut. And what did I get there? A personal pan pizza with cheese! Simple makes me happy. The photo I shared of my very favorite scary movie ever was guessed by one reader, and she correctly guessed Halloween! The original 1978 movie is my favorite ever! 

The favorite meal of the week we did have at home was delicious. And easy as can be! Doesn't it look amazing? Well, let me tell you, it was. And although it looks as if I slaved over a hot stove all day, I did not. I picked up a couple rotisserie chickens from our local grocery store deli, cut them up, whipped up some Hungry Jack Potatoes, heated up some Heinz Chicken Gravy, and microwaved some Bird's Eye Broccoli with Cheese Sauce. And my family loved it! Me too. 

Well, that is all I have for you today. I will throw some laundry in, make a few phone calls that have been on my ToDo list, and watch some tv with Flynn. Have a nice day, my friends. Thank you for visiting!

Leaving you with this today. It is not mine, and I do not have an author for it.

But maybe someone can use it just the same.

Billie Jo

Randomness Is Happiness

 

Steve and I went to a beautiful outdoor wedding of the son of our very dear friends. It was the most beautiful, romantic, enjoyable wedding we have attended in so long. The attention to detail was incredible, and the food was amazing. But most wonderful of all was sharing the day with people so dear to us. Thank you, Arnie and Paula, for including us in your beautiful family day.

My little shadow abandoned me last night. I couldn't find her anywhere until Flynn spotted her on Rhett's bed, waiting for him to come home.

Late summer offers so much beauty. And I appreciate it. 

But...

Does anyone know what movie this iconic scene is from???

Come on, you know you do!

Thanks for all the wishes for Flynn. She is on the mend, and after a few nights slathered in Vicks, she is sleeping better and eating again. I read her all your comments, and she was so appreciative!

Have a cozy Wednesday, my friends. It is an all-day rain event here. So we are all cozy and warm. Steve has a business dinner tonight, so no cooking for me! Any suggestions???

 

Thanks for visiting.

I promise I will be around to visit with you all soon.

Billie Jo

Monday Morning Coffee

 

Good Monday morning, my friends. My morning coffee is a latte from Dunkin'. Yes, I was up and about early this morning. I took my little Flynn to get a Covid test. She began feeling ill a few days ago with a sore throat, slight fever, cough, and congestion. My mind told me it was not the dreaded Covid, but my heart wanted to be sure. Brave soul that she is, she went first thing this morning, and while we waited, we got a treat and started home.

By the time I snapped this picture, we had received the good news that she was indeed negative! She took a long hot shower, I changed her bedsheets, doused the house with Lysol, and got her set up on the couch with a fresh sheet, pillow, and blanket. We are currently watching The Hunger Games. Doing all these things reminds me of the times my sweet mom did the same for me and how much better I always felt.

Have a cozy Monday, my friends. Soak in the summer. But rest assured, all things autumn are coming soon. In the case of this, all this...

August 18th!

Billie Jo

Baseball Games And Retro Shows

Yesterday Steve took his oldest, her hubby, and his youngest to a Pittsburgh Pirate game! I was invited, and although I briefly considered it, because I always enjoyed Pirate games with my dad, and I absolutely love stadium hotdogs, I opted to stay home, mainly because of the forecasted oppressive heat. You all know how much I love the sun, right? I felt really good about my decision. And then they were kind enough to send me this picture of my girls. Eating hotdogs inside an airconditioned room. Gotta love them!

I was happy, though, because I got to spend the afternoon with Madison and Nico's cute pup Draper. And some leftover Chinese food.

I know the world is all about Friends lately. And while I think it is a good show, I have to share one I think is highly underrated. It may be because I watched it with my older children years ago, but it is funny! Flynn and I have started watching it together, and I am enjoying it as much now as I did then.

Have you ever heard of Drake and Josh?

It is available on Amazon Prime if you are interested!

Have a wonderful weekend, my friends!

Thanks for stopping in!

Billie Jo

Thanks to Pinterest for the images!

 

In Between And Enjoying Both

This morning found myself snuggled under this beautiful autumn blanket sipping my coffee. I know. I know. It is still August. Madison bought it for me when she was shopping a few weeks ago, and I found it much too pretty and soft to pack away. However, since it is indeed still August, and I actually do enjoy one type of exercise, I spend a bit of time this afternoon with Flynn doing this...

Yes. That would be me. Make up free, hot mess hair, but happy as can be swimming in the lake with my five-pound pup and my eleven-year-old Flynn. Am I itching to dig out my pumpkin spice candle? You bet! But I think I will wait just a bit longer. Cozy outside on the deck at night is cozy just the same.

Have a cozy Wednesday, my friends.

Hotdogs on the grill tonight around here.

How about you?

Billie Jo

 

Well, Hello There!

 Hello there, my friends! Before I dive back into sharing all the happenings around here, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation for your kind words, messages, comments, and prayers. I hope that by bringing attention to mental health issues during certain periods of a woman's life, we will all feel more prepared, educated, confident, empathetic, and comforted. And not ashamed to ask for help through therapy and medication if necessary.

Meanwhile, we recently made our annual visit to DelGrosso's Amusement Park and enjoyed a lovely summer day. The park brought back so many memories but also allowed us to make new ones. And did I mention the lemonade????

Steve bought some new toys, and they are a hit. I have yet to enjoy the excitement, but everyone else seems to think they are awesome. I prefer a leisurely swim around the dock with only the clouds and ducks around.

We celebrated some very special birthdays for some very special people recently! First up, Christopher turned 24, and we enjoyed an evening of good food, fun, and delicious cake, made by Peyton, of course!

Kyrstin turned 21 last week, and we celebrated her with family, food, fun, and yet another delicious cake by Peyton. I am so happy that our young people enjoy celebrating with us.

And because the calendar still says August, I am doing my best to embrace the beauty of the season. For much of my family, that means peaches! We have peach shortcake, peach pie, peaches and granola, peaches and yogurt, peaches with cereal. The extent of my peach enjoyment consists of peeling and slicing. I'm more of a pumpkin spice and apple kind of girl. 

Perhaps the happiest summer days are the ones when my mom comes to spend the day with us. She loves the dogs, and playing cards, and just spending time with us. We cherish every single moment.

Finishing up with a rather poor iPhone shot of a majestic Bald Eagle we saw one evening while we were out on the boat. It really was an awesome sight.

So, although my heart is beginning to feel the tug of cozy autumn colors, throws, coffee, pillows, rainy days, and all things pumpkin, I am savoring the beauty of these glorious summer days.

Of course, there is laundry to be done, dust bunnies to sweep, school work to plan, and meals to cook. I am taking it easy and remembering to enjoy the beauty every single day. I am sorry I have not been around to visit. I plan on doing that soon. Have a cozy evening, my friends. Lemon garlic baked fish and Bachelorette finale here!

Billie Jo

Thank You Thoughts

 Hello, my friends. I am so very thankful to all of you for your comments and prayers and thoughts and validation. I hope you know I read, and reread them all. I also felt the love of this wonderful space and was comforted by you all. I have visited the doctor and readjusted my medication, spent time in prayer, and even went for a swim in the lake! Exercise is good for anxiety, they tell me. Figures! In any case, I am feeling more like myself, and hope to be back to our regular programming soon. 

Have a cozy Wednesday, my friends!

Thank you again!

Billie Jo

Sunday Evening Tea

 

Hello, my friends. Sorry about the radio silence last week. To be honest, I did not plan to be gone for so long. If you have read here for some time, you are familiar with my OCD and Health Anxiety battle. I had a setback last week, and honestly, it is hard. Although I have a wonderful support system and excellent tools, if I don't practice when things are going well, I am not prepared when anxiety decides to remind me it is ready and waiting. 

Last week, I experienced a bout of OCD and anxiety and am still working through it. I could say I have no idea why, but I can see how a perfect storm was forming if I think about it. I am adjusting to a new phase in life, that of a mother to older children. Many days I am home alone, and I am missing those days with little ones. My dear mother is doing well, yet I am struggling to accept the fact that she is aging and progressing in her Alzheimers journey. I am also in that phase of life where we women hold on for dear life and try to make our way through the highs and lows of menopause. 

In any case, I suddenly felt all those anxious feelings, heard all the irrational thoughts that OCD throws at me, and I worked through it as best I could. I felt tired, worried, sad, and unsure. I wasn't hungry. And I slept too much. And it sucked. It literally does. I know what is happening; I wish with all my heart it would stop, but I am unable to shake it off. That is anxiety for me. I am learning to ride the wave rather than try to stop it. I am learning to live with uncertainty and am refusing to engage with my irrational thoughts. I am a work in progress, folks.

As I said before, I debated whether or not to share this here, but if I can let one other person know that they are not alone, I am happy to be vulnerable. This is life. It isn't all puppies and coffee cups. Sometimes it is setbacks and tears. And naps. Thanks for listening, my friends. 

Have a cozy week!

Billie Jo