March 13, 2024

Sometimes You Got Nothing

 


Sometimes, you have nothing exciting to post. Sometimes you are fresh out of ideas, or you literally have one...albeit preciously cute...picture on your phone. Sometimes, nothing is happening except, well, life. Regular, ordinary, daily life. As I was saying my prayers this morning, I realized it is ok to write about nothing. I mean, life happens between all the special events, holidays, and excitement. And for me, ordinary life is the very best life there is.

Currently, I am on the couch with two of our three pups, finishing my morning coffee and prayers. The television is off, mainly because I try to keep my mornings less chaotic and more intentional, but also because this house has some sort of special air heating and cooling system that makes the sound travel everywhere and all at once! I am an early riser, to be sure. The remainder of the house is not. 

Later, I will get cleaned up, have breakfast/lunch, and start school with Flynn. We usually watch an old game show or two, like MatchGame or Card Sharks, first. If you are looking for a break from chaos and politically correct television today, immerse yourself in GameShow Network, where it is perpetually anywhere from 1975 through 1983 and much more fun. I mean Gene Rayburn and Jim Perry?! The best!

After school, I will throw in some laundry, take the dogs outside for a bit, and then wait for a call from my sister Margie and my mom; I am so thankful for those calls and for the fact that my mom is happy and still loves to talk with me, her daughter. Next, I will head to the kitchen, where I usually play some Post Malone music on my speaker rather loudly while I start dinner. Tonight, we are having Baked Ziti with Sausage, tossed salad, and garlic bread; Flynn is making some pumpkin bread too!

After dinner, we will clean up and get cozy on the couch for a few episodes of Gilmore Girls. After that, the kids usually disperse to various places for video games or showers, and I head to one of my favorite parts of my day, my nightly shower. I have written before how I used to be a morning shower person. However, an evening shower somehow does more than make me clean. It washes away the day's stress and relaxes me way more than an invigorating morning one. I slather on my lotion...Eucerin is my current favorite, followed by a bit of my signature scent... Amazing Grace by Philosophy. Then I head back out to the family room and plop on the couch for some reading or TV watching with Steve before bed.

Of course, this is only an outline of my ordinary day. In between are mundane things like picking up one dog's food so another can't eat it, helping Flynn train a cute but feisty puppy, making grocery lists, scrubbing toilets, taming my unstyled hair into a ponytail over and over, and checking in with my sister and friends through texts. My windows need washing, the bird feeder is empty, and Easter is coming too quickly. I can, however, let all that be, because it will all work out. And if it doesn't the sun will rise again anyhow, right? 

So, embrace your mundane, my friends. That is the stuff life is made of.

Billie Jo




March 11, 2024

Monday Morning Coffee

 


Good morning! I was up extra early this morning, around 6:30, which, for me, means 5:30 because it takes me a while to let go of the whole Daylight Savings thing. Our weekend was nice and cozy and rainy. Some friends visited, and we enjoyed catching up, watching TV, and eating. There were also several outings like movies, walks on the Boardwalk, and dinner out, which I politely passed on because, having three dogs, two in various stages of puppyhood, I thought it better to be here with them. I attended mass on Saturday, which was beautiful, and it felt good actually drying and styling my hair, as well as putting on a touch of makeup. Of course, I washed it all off the moment I got home and changed into my cozy clothes, but I put forth the effort; really, I did!

Today, Flynn and I will homeschool, and I am putting chicken breast in the crockpot with some salsa. I'll shred it for what we call "chicken bowls" that I serve with all the things: rice, avocado, tomato, lettuce, corn, and pico. Easy and delicious. We will continue cheering Joey the Bachelor on tonight as he narrows down his prospective life partner from three to the final two. And if you thought it would be easy for him to choose the woman he wants to spend his entire life with, think again! I am sure drama and tears will make an appearance tonight. Stay tuned!

Finally, before I go, I want to mention that Blogland lost one of its most beautiful, strong, talented, faithful women recently, and I feel the need to thank her for sharing her thoughts on life, home, and motherhood for so many years. Sarah from CLOVER LANE was one of the very first bloggers I ever read and continued to read for years and years. She fought unbelievably hard for the life she loved so, and I ask you to pray for or send loving thoughts to her greatest joy, her six children, as they say goodbye to her today.

 
Leaving you with a real-life picture this morning, my friends.
Thank you for visiting.
This really is a wonderful place, isn't it?


Billie Jo

March 8, 2024

Friday Photos

Hello! Happy Friday! These weeks are passing so quickly, don't you think? This one was rainy here. Rainy and chilly with a touch of darkness. Did I hate that? Not at all. Cozy weather in March is something I will never complain about. It gives me a few more weeks of my self-imposed exile from the outside. I left the house exactly one time this week. We went to a Lenten service at our new church. It was beautiful. And gave me the little nudge I needed to continue a fruitful Lent. 

We cooked some good meals this week. Steve made one of his mother's staples, Hunts Burgers. They were delicious! We had them two nights in a row.


I made a new soup recipe on Tuesday because I knew we would be at church, and I wanted something good and warm when we got back. Earlier in the day, I threw lots of vegetables and chicken into the crockpot. 


And then, I snapped this picture with my phone because I often think it is nice to show a behind-the-scenes photo. Life is messy, and I never want to give the impression that my house is perfect! I will link the recipe for this down below, but I must say, we felt it lacked flavor. I found salt, pepper, and freshly grated parmesan cheese helped. I think maybe making it on the stove would, too, by sauteing the veggies first. 


Now, these were delicious! Flynn and I made beef enchiladas on Wednesday night. They were super easy and super good. I didn't have anything planned to serve with them, but luckily, when I put them in the oven, I thought about frozen corn. Perfect.



Last night, we had frozen pizza—just keeping it real. We also watched the State of the Union address, and that is all I am going to say about that. I spent some of the rainy days adding some touches to this house, not too much, because clutter makes my head hurt.


This is my bedside table. The flowers are artificial, but look really real! I got them and the clock at Target. The candle is a really light lavender scent that smells like a spa. Unfortunately, the scent of the all-natural, soy, safe wick candle bothers Steve's sinuses, so the lid is on. For now. : )


Here is a little corner of the family room. I literally moved that lamp there this week. I keep rearranging things, but this is finished. For now. : )


And cozy candles on March evenings make me happy. Remember, though, that we turn the clocks ahead this weekend!

Have a lovely weekend, my friends.
Thanks for visiting! I am always happy you do!

Billie Jo

Oh! Here are the recipes!




March 6, 2024

Sidetracked

Don't you just love it when you go on Pinterest to look for a recipe and see one thing that reminds you of being young, living at home with your family, and not having a care in the world? I did that today, and I saw these.







Each one instantly took me back to a place and time I miss, and that really made me happy.

Have a great Wednesday, my friends.

Billie Jo