July 15, 2024

Monday Morning Coffee ~ Randomness Edition


Good Monday morning, my friends! We are halfway through July, and the weeks keep flying, don't they? I often gauge my summer by television events, sad but true, and this summer is keeping me on my toes! Shark Week was unusually early this year. It wrapped up this past weekend. My summer guilty pleasure staple, Big Brother, starts this week. Big Brother has been a part of my summer since it first aired in the summer of 2000. I remember Peyton was a newborn, and I was looking for things to watch while I snuggled her, and I tried it. Still watching, twenty-four years later! The Republican National Convention begins tonight, and, of course, the Olympics shortly after. So, there's that.


Before I go any further, I want to comment briefly on the horrible assassination attempt on former President Trump on Saturday evening. I refrain from discussing politics here in this space and will continue to do so. However, I could not let this pass without mentioning it. The horrific attempt on President Trump's life is a moment that will be remembered forever in the history books. I remember being in the sixth grade when His Holiness Pope John Paul ll was shot. Our teacher ran in and took us to the auditorium to watch on television. Years later, I was a junior in high school standing in the lunch line with my friends when we heard of the Challenger explosion. And now, I will remember sitting on my couch, reading a book, and getting a text from my son in our family group text asking, "Trump just got shot??? 

Again, I do not discuss politics here because I believe we can make educated decisions about which political party we favor and which policies are best for us. That is a personal choice based on several factors that are individual to each of us. Saturday's events go way beyond this. Whether Republican, Democrat, Independent or anything else, we are all human beings. As such, we should be able to come together and agree that any attempt on a human's life, as well as the senseless taking of another human life, is a horrific act of violence that must not be tolerated. I pray we can come together as people, as Americans, and set the hate aside. And that is all I am going to say about that.


Happy news: I visited my momma yesterday! She was doing well and was so glad to see me. I know she knows I am important to her and a piece of her life. Sometimes I am me, BJ, she says, and other times I am her best friend, whom she grew up with. I am also her mother. None of that matters to me because she knows I love her and is happy when we visit! I cherish every moment we share, and while I am optimistic here in this space, I am also aware that this crappy disease is slowly taking her further away from me every day. And that sucks. What helps my sister Margie and I are the moments we share with her when our Mom breaks through and we see the beautiful woman who gave us the most wonderful and happy childhood.






My bestie Heather and her husband Dave came over Saturday night for an impromptu fire. The weather was perfect—not too hot and not too chilly. We had pizza mountain pies, fruit mountain pies, and, of course, S'mores! Steve caught his first fish of the year and saw some beautiful bucks on his walk. While he was doing that, I was working in the kitchen and thinking about how excellent my homemaker skills were when I found this.



Is that even possible? This means I would have moved this little plastic jar of red pepper two times! And then, I never noticed it was that old? It's one of life's unanswered questions, I suppose.


On that note, I'm off to get some breakfast. Or another cup of coffee. Or both. Have a lovely Monday, my friends. Thanks for visiting!

Billie Jo





July 12, 2024

Happy Things

 







I hope you find your happy this weekend, my friends. I plan on a quiet Friday night at home with grilled hot dogs and corn on the cob, mass on Saturday with some boating time afterward, and a visit with my momma. I also hope for some cozy reading time, and some blog visiting too! 

Have a lovely weekend!
Thanks for visiting.

Billie Jo



July 10, 2024

( Almost ) One Word Wednesday







Afterward

~Remnants of a fun weekend with a full house~
I wouldn't have it any other way.

Happy Wednesday!

Billie Jo

July 8, 2024

Just How Much Fun

 Can you cram into a single weekend?





















We wrapped up our Fourth of July Festivities this past weekend with plenty of boating, baking, eating, tubing, and laughing. We watched fireworks, played Shark Week games, ate s'mores by a fire, and collapsed on the couch to watch a movie. (The Sandlot is a great summer movie, by the way.) There was mass, phone calls with my mom, and some afternoon naps, too. We ordered subs to eat on the deck, cooked burgers on the grill, and ate Madison's amazing corn salad. This autumn-loving, sun-avoiding, inside girl jumped (literally) out of her comfort zone and was so glad she did.

The moments we share as a family are so special and forever changing. I decided out in that boat on a beautiful summer afternoon this weekend that I was not going to wish for the past or plan out the future. Rather, I was going to stay present in each moment and enjoy it before I tucked it into my heart. I realized that our precious moments may change as my children get older, but not all that much. When Madison asked... ok, begged...me yesterday to go tubing, something I have never done, I was reminded of a day many years ago when a not-yet-three-year-old Madison with a curly ponytail and a big white bow begged me to ride the Ferris wheel at the amusement park. That hot summer day, I looked at my little girl and said yes, even though I was scared to death! When we stopped at the very top, and I held my breath, trying to not let her know how scared I was, she patted my hand with her little one and told me it would be alright. So, I said yes to the tubing with her, and just like that day years ago, she told me I would be fine. And you know what? I was. And we had a blast! 

Last night, we watched a favorite movie I hadn't seen in years. It is one of Rhett's childhood favorites. I remember him eating lunch after three-year-old preschool with his headphones and his portable DVD player, watching The Sandlot yet again. Last night, he suggested we all watch it together, and as tired as I was, I jumped at the chance to relive a special time in his life. We still love that movie. And we all stayed awake the entire time! 

Have a wonderful Monday, my friends. I am going to catch up on my blog reading today. I have to stay true to my reputation of being an autumn-loving, stay-in-and-out-of-the-sun girl, right? 

I look forward to a quiet afternoon of snuggling on the couch and visiting with you. 

Billie Jo




July 5, 2024

A Few Photos From The Fourth Of July 2024

 










Boating ~ Eating ~ Visiting ~ Raining ~ More Boating ~ More Eating ~ More Raining ~ Bed

I hope your Fourth of July was all you wanted it to be, my friends. The lake's celebration of Independence Day is tomorrow! While I used to throw a big fireworks-watching party every year with festive food, games, prizes, music, and more, I am now content and comfortable with a simple, cozy, low-key affair. There will be food, and me and my people, and Madison's fireworks-watching music playlist, of course. 

Have a wonderful weekend, my friends!
And if you are a new reader, welcome to my cozy corner of Blogland!

Billie Jo


July 3, 2024

This or That - Fourth of July Edition


The Fourth of July is almost here! Before we set off the fireworks, let's see some of your favorite things about this special summer holiday!


1. Hot Dogs or Hamburgers?

2. Celebrate at home or at the pool/beach/ park?

3. Fireworks live or on television?

4. Music playing during the live fireworks or just the ooohhs and aaahhhs?

5. Big shindig party or small family gathering?

6. Watch Jaws or No Thank You?

7. Wear special Red, White, and Blue clothes or whatever clothes are currently on top of the pile?

8. You're a Grand Old Flag or Stars and Stripes Forever?

Whatever you choose, or however you celebrate, have a wonderful Fourth of July, my friends. And if I could be so bold, sometime between the fun and festivities, take a moment to think about the real reason we celebrate this day, year after year. 

Thanks for visiting!

Billie Jo

~ My choices! ~

1. Hot Dogs or Hamburgers? Hot dogs! With chopped onion and mustard, just like my dad used to love.

2. Celebrate at home or at the pool/beach/ park? No surprise here. At home!

3. Fireworks live or on television? Live. And sometimes on TV.

4. Music playing during the live fireworks or just the ooohhs and aaahhhs? Madison has a special playlist!

5. Big shindig party or small family gathering? We used to have a huge party, but we don't do that anymore.

6. Watch Jaws or No Thank You? Jaws. Every single year.

7. Wear special Red, White, and Blue clothes or whatever clothes are currently on top of the pile? I used to get everyone the $5.00 shirts from Old Navy. Now, I try to find something close that is comfy!

8. You're A Grand Old Flag or Stars and Stripes Forever? My mom still sings every word of You're a Grand Old Flag. She loves the fireworks, and I know I will shed a tear while I watch as that song plays in the background.


July 1, 2024

Monday Morning Coffee...From The Lake!



Good Monday morning! We are safe and sound, back at the lake! And it is as beautiful as ever! 




We are all settled in, even these precious pups, who wasted no time getting comfy.




Today, I am off to visit with my mom! I will be around to visit this afternoon, my friends. Have a wonderful Monday! And Happy July!


Billie Jo