October 16, 2024

Take Your Time. It's October.

It's October—the middle of October. I realized yesterday that this most beautiful, peaceful, cozy time is what I have waited for all year. I dream of these days during the hot sun of July, and now, they are here. I hope I am making the most of them because, like the colorful leaves on the old tree outside, they will disappear all too soon.











Enjoy your October, my friends! 

Billie Jo

(Google for the October images. )


October 14, 2024

OCD Awareness Week

 


Monday Morning Coffee will return next week, but today, I am sharing a few things about something that is a part of me and of my life. If you are a longtime reader, you may know I was diagnosed with OCD - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - in my early forties. Looking back, I realize I had tendencies years prior, but it wasn't until I could no longer control those intrusive thoughts and worries without them impacting my wonderful life that I finally walked into my doctor's office with Steve and asked for help. Today, I am happy to say that I am managing my OCD, and it is no longer impacting my daily life. 

I wish I could say I waved a magic wand and magically cured my OCD, but that is not the case. While there is no cure, OCD can be managed, and I am happy to say that is where I am now. It took years of hard work with a compassionate therapist, prayer, support from family and friends, and doctors committed to finding the proper medication to get here. I am now able to go to the doctor without severe anxiety. I can notice a twinge, a mole, or a racing heart without becoming paralyzed with fear. I no longer wake with an illogical fear of impending doom. I realize those intrusive thoughts are simply my anxious mind trying to get my attention. I know I can let them be there and move on with my day, and they will simply fade. 

Throughout this journey, I have learned a few things that I want to share with anyone who may be experiencing mental health issues and/or anxiety. First, Your mental health is as important as your physical health. If you feel ill, you go to the doctor. If you are sick, you take medicine. Are you embarrassed, ashamed, or worried about telling people you have a sickness like Diabetes? Nope. Treat your mental illness with as much respect as you do your physical illness. Get the help you need and deserve. Anyone who doesn't stand beside you through that doesn't belong in your space anyway. 

There is so much more to know, learn, and say about OCD. I will let the experts do that. Here are just a few of the things found on the International OCD Foundation Website.




That is all for today, my friends! Except for a few puppy pics, because who doesn't love those?




Literally how I found him when I woke up!

Have a wonderful, cozy Monday!

Billie Jo







October 11, 2024

A Touch Of Halloween Spooky

Hello and Happy Friday! I'm sharing a few spaces in our home that are cozy, spooky, and ready for Halloween. Many of these things I have had for over thirty years. So, while it is tempting to buy all the cute new things I see every year, I find comfort in the familiarity of those I set out year after year. When the kids were little, we had a special day for Halloween decorating. I got them each a pair of Halloween jammies; we waited until dusk, put on our favorite CD, which we still have, and lugged the orange tote with the jack-o-lantern on it up the basement steps.

Years and years ago, I bought two small Yankee candles, one Witches Brew and the other Candy Corn. When I was packing up Halloween one year, I put them inside the box, and the next year, when we opened it, everything inside smelled like the candles! The fragrance is like patchouli, and we love it. Why am I telling you this? Would you believe that I still have those candles? Everything still smells like that. The kids say that smell will always be Halloween to them. 

  
















Have a wonderful weekend, my friends! If you want something to watch, Halloweentown is a fun, festive choice. And there are three more in the series! 





(This one has a different girl. Not our favorite. )

Billie Jo

Our favorite Halloween CD for years and years!


(Google for the images.)

October 9, 2024

A Piece Of Life

One of my favorite childhood memories is watching my mom make apple pie in her bright yellow daffodil kitchen. I remember the smell of sliced apples covered in cinnamon and sugar, and even more vividly, I remember my mom taking the scraps of her homemade crust, dipping them in cinnamon sugar, rolling them up, and baking them for me and my sisters. Years later, when I was in college, my mom made me that same apple pie to take back to school after weekends at home. I remember the delicious smell comforting me for the whole three hours of the drive after leaving my house with my family and Steve standing in the driveway, waving goodbye.

Years later, I made apple pie for my family and used Mom's recipe, but by then, I had discovered the ease of a Pillsbury Pie Crust. My whole family loves that apple pie, except Rhett, who "doesn't eat cooked fruit." I lost track of how many times I made that apple pie, and before I knew it, I was teaching Peyton how to make her Grandma's Famous Apple Pie. Peyton has perfected it and sometimes uses a delicious crumble for the top crust. 

On Monday, Flynn decided she wanted to make a fall dessert. Peyton and she had listed several options, and Madison offered to help. They went over different options, many in the pumpkin category and a few in the apple category. I happened to mention that I had a Pillsbury Pie Crust in the fridge, and the decision was made! Suddenly, I was peeling farm-fresh apples, and then they got to work. I sat in the kitchen and watched as my oldest and my youngest, with texting support from Peyton, made their first apple pie. I realized at that moment how a simple but meaningful piece of life would continue as a link in the chain of our lives. 

One day long ago, my Grandma Mil made an apple pie. My mom watched, learned, and showed me. I made that delicious apple pie for years. Now, my girls are keepers of the piece of our lives and will hopefully continue to share it with those who come after them. Yesterday, I sat at the kitchen table with Madison and Flynn, enjoyed a piece of apple pie, and visited, just as I had when I sat at my mom's kitchen table and did the same thing with her and my Gram. Who knew all those years ago that one thought, one recipe, one pie would span generations and bring comfort to so many? Thank you, Gram. And Mom. And Peyton, Madison, and Flynn, for this delicious, familiar piece of life.



Have a lovely Wednesday, my friends. And prayers for all affected by these horrible hurricanes. Please be safe if you are near.

Billie Jo