October 12, 2022

OCD Awareness Week 2022

 


Good morning, my friends! This week is International OCD Awareness Week. OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. According to The International OCD Foundation, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is a mental health disorder that affects people of all ages and walks of life, and occurs when a person gets caught in a cycle of obsessions and compulsions [1]. Obsessions are unwanted, intrusive thoughts, images, or urges that trigger intensely distressing feelings. Compulsions are behaviors an individual engages in to attempt to get rid of the obsessions and/or decrease distress.

That is what OCD is. What it isn't is funny, quirky, or silly. It isn't being neat, organized, or clean. OCD is not fun. It is horrible. It seeps into every aspect of your life, especially when you let your guard down for even a second. OCD is real. It sucks. But it can be managed. I promise. I have written about my OCD struggle here several times over the years. I am sharing those posts again for anyone interested. The one thing I want anyone reading to know about OCD is this: You are not alone. You are not alone when you are lying in your bed, dreading the day before you because intrusive thoughts are swirling in your brain. You are not alone when you try as hard as you can to resist checking one more time. And when you see others living with what appears to be not a care in the world, and you cannot understand how they are not ruminating on an obsession, you are not alone. 










Thank you for supporting me, my friends. Sharing a mental health issue is not easy. Keeping it to yourself is much more difficult. If sharing helps one single person, however, it is worth it. Thank you for supporting me, my friends. Have a cozy day.

Billie Jo

October 10, 2022

Monday Morning Coffee Talk

 






Good Monday morning! I hope you are having a lovely October day. These next couple of weeks are some of my favorite of the year. The leaves are beginning to change to those beautiful shades of orange, red, and gold. The air is cooler but not yet cold. The evenings come earlier, allowing for a more cozy time inside after dinner. And all things pumpkin surround us inside and out.

We finished our family beach vacation with dinner at a favorite Italian restaurant. Nights like this one always make me think of my dad. He absolutely loved eating good Italian food surrounded by family. Now, I am the parent, surrounded by my family. And I am thankful.



This lovely photo is courtesy of Mocha. She gets up every morning to go out, and one morning this week, she woke a bit earlier. When I came around the corner, I was greeted with this sight. And my phone camera did not do it justice. 

Have a cozy day, my friends!
Thanks for visiting!

Billie Jo

October 7, 2022

Friday Photos



Good morning, my friends! Happy Friday! Our week here started out windy, rainy, and cozy. It is ending with warmer temperatures, sun, and some beach time. In between, we enjoyed being together, watching movies...Elvis, A Star Is Born, and Knives Out so far...playing games...Monopoly, Farkle, and Phase 10, and eating. 





Did I mention eating??? Pumpkin Spice pancakes with a pumpkin spice latte was a favorite breakfast. My favorite dinner? Pan-seared scallops over lobster risotto with oil and lemon vinaigrette topped arugula. And see that dessert? That would be Chocolate Kaula cake with mousse filling. It was amazing. 



We took a few photos to capture this moment in time. And to remind me that I always overpack for the beach. I only need pajamas, an outfit, my bathing suit, and my zip-up robe. I literally wear my jammies, then change into my suit to swim, shower, and put on my old blue zip-up robe! If we go out, I change. And then promptly put my jammies on as soon as we return. 




The beach holds so many memories for our family. We started coming years ago as a family of three, two young parents with their firstborn baby girl. Our family has grown to include three more children, two sons-in-law, and one girlfriend through the years. I never take for granted the time we spend here together and the fact we can all be together. And the fact that we still carry Blue's Clues Shovel and Pail and Elmo and Big Bird beach toys down to the sand. 

We will enjoy a couple more days here and then pack up and head home to colorful leaves and cooler air. I hope you have a wonderful weekend, whatever you plan on doing. Thanks for visiting! I am always happy you do.

Billie Jo



 

October 5, 2022

I Like And I Don't ~ Autumn Edition

 


I like classic horror like Macbeth, Frankenstein, and Dracula. I don't like bloody, violent, and evil horror movies. Nope. Just nope.


I like cozy autumn afternoons inside, reading, and drinking coffee. I don't like autumn afternoons outside hiking, biking, or anything else that resembles physical activity.


I like pumpkin everything. Cookies, bars, cake, coffee. I don't like anything caramel or maple. I literally smell maple all day long whenever I am around it!


I like wearing crewneck sweatshirts with leggings in the fall. I don't like wearing anything else.

How about you, my friends?!
What do you like about fall? Anything you don't?

Have a cozy afternoon!

Billie Jo

P.S. All photos thanks to Pinterest!