August 14, 2024

What Is In A Day

I genuinely believe this, although it took me many years to get to this point. I am thankful I finally embraced my love and contentment with being home and living a slow and intentional life. While this slow and homey life is different for each person, I thought I would share a small sample of my days when we are at the condo.

Each morning, I get out of bed as soon as I wake up. Usually, this is between 6:30 and 7:00; Mocha and Cosmo come with me and take their place on the sofa while I take my pills and make my coffee. Then, I join them on the couch and sip my coffee while I say my prayers. I am always the first one awake, so it is quiet and peaceful. I also use this time to write blog posts, read blog posts, and check online to see how my mom is doing. After a bit, Steve wakes up, comes out with the pups, and I change into my suit and head to the pool. 

After I finish, I head back up and shower. I put on a housedress, and although I look like a woman from The 1963 Sears Catalogue, I feel cozy and comfortable, so there's that. 

After my shower, we have breakfast or lunch together. It is usually eggs, fruit, toast, and cottage cheese. Then, I throw in a load of laundry or help clean up the kitchen. After a bit, I start to feel sleepy and head to my room for an afternoon nap. After I wake up, I usually finish the laundry, have a snack or cup of coffee, and visit. Then I change into some actual clothes, and we head down to the beach, just as everyone else is heading in. I take my book and read or just sit and watch the waves. 





Finally, we head back up to make dinner. Madison made this meal this week. It is absolutely delicious! She sent me a picture of the recipe she found in a magazine. She followed the recipe completely but added some ripe avocado. We had it with a French baguette.



Once dinner is cleaned and the kitchen is closed, we sit down and watch something together. We are almost finished with Gilmore Girls, and I am so sad! Although, I am sure I will rewatch it soon. I usually head to bed first, meaning I fall asleep reading, and Steve has to put my glasses and book away for me. And so ends another day.

We are back at the house now, and I need to get this day started. I hope you have a lovely Wednesday, my friends, however you choose to spend it. Thanks for visiting!

Billie Jo

(Pinterest for the images.)

August 12, 2024

Monday Morning Coffee



Good Monday morning, my friends! How was your weekend? We came to the condo Saturday after mass and dinner, and I am having some productive and relaxing days. Productive because I brought Flynn's curriculum to start organizing my thoughts into some sort of schedule and relaxing because we spend time on the shore watching the waves. There is something about the ocean that allows for a sense of peace and contentment. Here are a few pictures of the past few days.



Saturday evening dinner outside with Madison, Nicolas, and Flynn. It was a beautiful evening with some very good food.


Breakfast on Sunday was an impressive feat! Steve's scrambled eggs, garden tomatoes, cottage cheese, a slice of Dave's Killer Whole Grain Bread, and some yummy grapes.



Steve brought some of his garden tomatoes from the house, and Madison and I made the most amazing BLT sandwiches for lunch yesterday. The bread was whole grain from the Farmer's Market, and have I told you about discovering a new to us mayonnaise? It is called Duke's, and it looks like this.

(Walmart.com)
It is delicious and doesn't add extra sugar. Trust me. It took a lot to try something other than Hellmanns!

August brings lots of people with pretty umbrellas who spend days at the beach. We are happy to wait until evening to enjoy the peaceful quiet that only the ocean waves can provide. The others went for a long walk while I stayed back and watched the chairs, which is my way of saying I did not walk on the beach! I am always happy to do that, you know. I was the one to watch the babies while everyone rode the rollercoasters at the amusement parks. I am the bag-and-phone-and-camera keeper, too. I am the one to stay back and watch the dogs while others go down to the boardwalk. I am happy to do all these things because that is who I am. An observer more than a participant. And glad to be so!






And look. I even made a friend while sitting there! 

Have a lovely Monday, my friends. 
Thanks for visiting!

Billie Jo

(Pinterest for the fun image.)






August 9, 2024

All The Things


Hello! On Fridays, I like to check my camera roll and see what we've been up to during the past week. Let's get started, shall we? First, we were riding in the car, going somewhere I cannot remember when I pulled out my phone. Before I even said a word, these two leaned in for a picture!

 

My first and my last, who sometimes, I still think of like this:

Sigh. Thanks a lot, time. 

I wanted to update you on my sweet mother today. Remember a few weeks back when she was having a really rough time? Well, my sister Margie and I felt that although we knew she would progress through this crappy journey of Alzheimer's, something else was causing the sudden behavior change. Now, her nursing home is a beautiful facility filled with some very caring and compassionate people. It is clean and pleasant and offers many daily activities that stimulate her brain. However, I have found that some people are not as open to family members inquiring about or challenging care decisions. I am a very kindhearted person who was taught to respect everyone. I will, however, advocate for this amazing woman because she is the best person I know. So when I received no assistance in speaking with the doctor who treats Mom, and when I was treated less than kindly and respectfully on the phone, I felt it necessary to continue to call until I finally reached him. After discussing our concerns, I can report she is no longer taking a certain medication for an unspecified pain that she supposedly had, although she cannot verbalize what that could possibly be. This medication had immediately made Mom so groggy, so confused, and so unhappy. It also had some unpleasant side effects. He discontinued it, and although she is still tapering off it, she is clearly more alert, aware, and happy! I am thankful for your prayers, my friends. And never stop advocating for your loved ones. Doesn't she look amazing??


Do you ever wonder what your blogger friends are doing as they write the posts they share? Well, this is me. Puppies, a throw blanket, my laptop, and coffee. 


While this may look like a random picture of a shoe rack to you, it is actually the fruit of very hard labor, my friends. Flynn and I spent an obscene amount of time assembling this "Easy to Assemble" shoe rack this week. Now, I know my strong points. Screws, screwdrivers, poorly written directions, and random pieces with letters to identify them are not along them. However, when the choices are giving it a shot versus seeing it sit in the box for weeks, I decided to take one for the team. Flynn took pity on me offered to help, and after an hour or so of some PG-rated language, hysterical laughter, and one phone call to the handiest guy we know, Peyton's husband Christopher, we turned this thing over and set it down. It didn't fall apart! It now sits by the front door, and I can see my carpet again! Lesson learned: Keep chasing your dreams, kids. Never give up.


Our favorite meal this week was an easy one! I made homemade chicken tenders and macaroni and cheese, and Madison prepared the zucchini. The entire meal is so easy to prepare but so delicious! I will link the recipes down below.


We celebrated Kyrstin's birthday this week with dinner out for her favorite crab legs and cupcakes Rhett made himself!! There were presents, cards, and a whole lot of laughs, too. Happy Birthday, Kyrstin! 

I will wrap this up with some random pictures of life around here, starting with this young lady who somehow looks like a teenager, although I swear she was wearing smocked dresses and big hairbows yesterday! 







Have a cozy weekend, my friends! Thank you for visiting!

Billie Jo



(I used Half and Half in place of the heavy cream for the macaroni and cheese and added a tablespoon of butter. And take the extra time to shred your own cheese! It makes a world of difference! )







August 7, 2024

Just For Fun And Giveaway Winners

 







Sometimes, we just need to forget all the drama, anxiety, and worry and smile for a few minutes. Thank you, Pinterest, for your help with that.

Now, we have some winners to announce! Following a highly technical and official drawing that consisted of Nicolas, a random number generator, and Flynn with her Notes app, I am happy to announce the winners of the giveaway! 

Amazon Gift Card

Becky

Nice family photos that you shared. I enjoy reading your blog. If I win, I don't have a Donkin donuts in our state. It's been warm outdoors and hopefully it doesn't get close to 100 degrees like it did days ago! God bless and congratulations on 12 years of blog posts. I think I am a bit longer than that and I keep forgetting to look when it started.!!! :-} --Becky


Antique Candle Company Gift Card

Patricia

Love these pictures! I see this year's picture has a new gentleman and wonder if Flynn has a new special beau. Would love to be entered in your giveaway; I'm a long time follower.
Patricia


( And that was actually Nicolas' brother Jakob, who was visiting from Denmark!)


And the Three Dunkin' Gift Cards


Melanie

Twelve years of faithful blogging is nothing to sneeze at! Congratulations! I've blogged for a long time but it's changed names a couple of times. The first one was called "Joy in the Journey". My current one though isn't a continuation of that one.
It's fun to see a photo from each year.
Thank you for the drawing. Please enter me in.
Have a great weekend.


Linda

OH WOW!!! 12 YEARS!!!! NO WAY!!!! Congratulations and such lovely photos, my friend.


And Carrie

Happy Blogaversary dear Billie Jo! I'm so glad you acted on that whim all those years ago. I can't imagine my world without you in it.🙏🏻💕 Let alone keeping up with your beautiful family and the fact that some of my treasured recipes I got from you. Thank you so much for all that you share here! Cheers to many many more years ahead. 💗❌⭕️


To the winners, please email me with your email address, and I will send you your gift card! Please contact me by Friday, August 16, 2024.

To those who did not win this time, Thank you so much for entering, reading, and commenting. This little blog has opened so many doors to friendship, kindness, advice, and fun that I am forever grateful to be a part of it. 


Have a fun and cozy Wednesday, my friends!


Billie Jo